make some mind maps to help you remember your destiny

Hari ini hari ketiga saya sakit dan istirahat di rumah berkat surat sakit dari dokter. Karena kerjaan cuma tidur dan bangun untuk ke belakang (lemes banget, terutama otaknya lemes banget). Lalu disiang hari aku pun terbangun dan berkata dalam hati "Astaghfirullah.. Tugas saya ini sudah bertumpuk. Ditambah masalah masalah batin lagi... Ga boleh gini, Life goes on, dude! I have to figure it out". Saya pun mulai membuat mind map saya...

Si mind map ini saya baru bikin dua lembar untuk dua masalah, ternyata begitu jadi satu halaman itu penuh juga. Tadinya mau saya upload disini tapi... ga usah lah, itu rahasia. Satu lembar untuk jangka panjang (sampai saya mati) dan satunya mungkin jangka pendek, hanya sekedar mengeluarkan apa yang ada di otak saya agar saya ingat apa yang saya mau dan apa yang saya butuh.

contoh mind map, sumber:
https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1_tQpNozli77RDunf1lsZPHQQsavpXAW8nUicaK_RKf3s8sbhEP2cUKsy38D4GboLbUPhXjTeRHUgwWDqCRun9KDt1V1UwpyeUn67HEtgXOcOUbAg_oe2L8QO0jWK4k9exvs6HoM3fKc/s1600/014131916.jpg

dan buat kamu yang mau tau cara bikin mind map lewat gambar mind map, silahkan download gambar ini, kalo ga bisa buka link ini http://berkarya.um.ac.id/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/how-to-mind-map.jpg

Dari gambar diatas (yang center nya gambar mata besar) kamu bisa lihat cara membuat mind map (process), kaidah kaidah nya yang lebih mengarah pada proses si mind map ini mempengaruhi kehidupan (Rules), Definisi yang ditangkap otak ketika melihat mind map (Definition), Keuntungan yang didapatkan dengan membuat mind map (Benefits), dan untuk aspek kehidupan apa saja kah mind map dapat digunakan (Uses) yang saya rasa dapat mencakup segala aspek kehidupan.

Ga ada alasan kalo kamu emang inign keluar dengan mudah lewat mind mapping, bikin laah... 

Gak biasa gambar? gambarnya ga usah bagus2 yang penting komunikatif untuk diri sendiri...

Kenapa harus pakai gambar? karena satu gambar dapat mewakilkan beribu ungkapan dalam otak. Bukti? contoh: apa yang ada di otak kalian ketika memandang foto kenangan kalian yang sedang meniup lilin diatas kue ulang tahun? pasti banyak kan? pemberi kue, rasa kue, waktu, tempat, perasaan, orang yang hadir, dll.

Kenapa harus berwarna? warna itu bagai stimuli untuk otak, gambar plus warna lebih mudah di ingat...

Baiklaaah, akhir kata, silahkan mencoba.. Semoga bermanfaat.

what's in our parents mind

one night, i heard my dad sang a song alone in living rom. i asked him: "what song is it?" he answered: "it's Putri Silitonga Song, the title is Uju Dingolukkon Ma Nian". And then he told me what the song tells about... the song is from Medan - North Sumatera, West Indonesia. The song tells about an old parent who had realized that she was growing as a decrepit. She feels that her time on earth are shorter now... 


Hamu anakkon hu, tampukni pusu-pusuki
Pasabarma amang, pasabarma boru
Laho pature-ture au.

Dear my Sons and Daughters, my dearest

Please be  patient, my sons, my daughter

 to take care of me

Nungnga matua au jala sitogu togu on i
sulangon mangan ahu, Siparidion au
alani parsahitokki.

I'm old now and can't  rely on my own strength

to eat i should be fe, to take a bath i should be bathed

because my desease

Somarlapatan marende, margondang, marembas hamu
Molo dung mate au.
Somarlapatan nauli, na denggan, patupaon mu
Molo dung mate au

There's no use by singing, playing music, dancing

(tradition when people die in  South Sumatra, if they die in victory>> means  prosperous, wealthy, and rich, the family should celebrate the death)

when i am dead

There's also no use by giving the best thing for me

when i'm dead already

Uju di ngolukkon ma nian
Tupa ma bahen akka nadenggan
Asa tarida sasude
Holong ni rohami, namarnatua-tua i

So, for you who still have a pair of parents, or just one left... When they're get older and weak, actually they don't want to make difficulties for you, but that just what they are now. They want you to beatified by us. They may not say what they really want, when you get too busy with your job, your spouse, and all your own bussiness.... Could you remember the time when you were an infant... when all you can do is crying :) love your parents now before it's too late...

welcome 2011

i opened my old diaries and read my pass life... my diaries are fulfilled with love story and food and all about cute useless things hahaha... but i love to read 'em back. Even sometimes i always cut off and throw away useless story on it :P

3years had passed from 2008, i found my biggest resolution is to reduce my weight until 55kg, and i'm now still 60kg, but it better than stay 70kg? hehehe....

What i love from my diary is some drawings about the moment that time, i feel like flash back to the day where life was so beautiful...

From such a simple thing called Diary i learned how to edit our Passed life... it may not by Photoshop like Utada Hikaru wish (i wish that i could photoshop on our bad memories cause the flash back won't leave me alone - come back). But just let it burned like a piece of paper... just let it go, just forget it. Did you know that every second, our cells may do such regeneration or renewing more than once? why can't memories? one deleted file to replaced by some more new files...

Here's the reason why we should just delete some useless memories:

just like a cup that are goin to filled with water. if the whole cup already fullfilled with water then can you have more water on it? that just like our brain, don't you let another water uverflow your  cup just because you don't have enough space.... don't want to waste? so drink it. take the positive lesson and experience from the bad moments, and let some new lessons to be learned...

life goes on, dude.....

And welcome 2011, i'll make some new wishes in my new diary ^____^

yang udah udah hanya masa lalu

Sudahlah....
aku lupakan saja masa lalu mu.....
yang penting sekarang 
aku disini, ada untukmu
dan kau ada untukku...
biarlah itu menghiasi catatan sejarah pribadimu


Cintailah aku sesukamu...
Sebanyak cinta yang dapat kau berikan
jangan paksakan apapun
aku suka ketulusan
bukan keterpaksaan....


Dan aku akan membiarkanmu menjadi diri sendiri
masa depan tetaplah misteri,,,,


Masa lalumu adalah sesuatu yang telah berlalu
yang tertinggal hanya memori
simpanlah sesukamu
buanglah kapan pun....


Biarlah.... kesabaranku sendiri yang akan menyelamatkanku
marah sudah sering
namun...
aku percaya, perkataan seiring waktu dapat berubah makna,,,
janji dapat diingkari kapanpun...


yang aku tahu...
aku cinta kamu hari ini....
bukan karena suatu keterlanjuran rasa yang terbentuk karena keberadaanmu
tapi karena aku memang memilih untuk mencintaimu

r u still the same?

are you still the person with ransel on your back?
are you still the person who never brought umbrella in your bag?
are you still... like 2 years ago....? and do you remember...

   when my lunch box is in your bag?
   when i made u some pancakes?
   when we had dinner and ate a plate mushy rice with capcay and fried egg that i've made
   when you told me it taste delicious...


when you were waiting for me on corn shaped bench...
when we play DDR together
and running through the rain without umbrella
but with your jacket is upon my head...




i am here...
and i'm still me... 


~- Bestfriend-~

cinta ibu sepanjang masa

cuma mau bilang, kau ini anak yang ga tau diri, sering ngambek, marah marah ke ibu. Padahal dalam hatiku setiap aku ingat ibu selalu mencintaiku, aku selalu ingin didekatmu ibu.. T_T aku sayang ibu!!!